I'm Dreaming of a Green Christmas!

Sarah Allen • November 9, 2018

Updated: 03 Nov 2021 and 11 Nov 2024

The season of goodwill can extend to the planet, here’s my eco-friendly Christmas gift guide.

My thoughts are turning to Christmas (well a few of them! I don’t like thinking about it too early but I don’t like a full-on PANIC!!) so I figured some of you would be thinking about it too. Christmas can be joyful, fun and a way to spoil loved ones but it is also usually wasteful and quite frankly over-indulgent and decadent! So how can we make it eco-friendly but not dampen everyone’s Christmas cheer? This is what I do:

Presents

My 7R's approach ( Refuse, Reduce Reuse, Repair, Rot, Recycle, Return) which I use to be a conscious consumer all year round can be applied to Christmas shopping. So the first step is to refuse! I’m not going to buy the things I don’t need (or that I don’t think other people need!). So, I plan to refuse to buy stocking fillers, gimmicky presents that create a ‘laugh’ but have no real use (more on that in this excellent article ) and I will not be buying lots just for the sake of it (Bah humbug! Reduce is a great eco-friendly option!). I will buy presents people have specifically asked for, e.g. I was shopping with my mum the other day and she saw something she liked and asked me to get it for her for Christmas, my kids will probably come up with a Christmas list and my husband hates surprises so he will point me in the right gift-buying direction for him. For those people who don’t know what they want, don’t want to ask or prefer surprises I will refuse to buy over-packaged gifts and look for eco-friendly options. Here are some of my ideas and examples of presents I’ve bought in the past:

- Books

- Magazine subscriptions

- Clothes, jewellery, a scarf or a bag; how about something second-hand or ethically produced?

- Plastic-free chocolate, look for foil-wrapped Santas or bars of chocolate packaged in cardboard and foil. Alternatively, how about seeking out an independent chocolatier such as Chococo they sell beautiful, ethical chocolates all in 100% plastic-free packaging.

- Food e.g. jars of chutney, jam etc. These could be put together into a hamper

- Wine, whiskey, gin etc. (you get the idea! Even better if it's from a local company)

- Things people need e.g. vegetable seeds for a keen gardener. I bought a palette knife and cooling rack for my daughter who loves to bake.

- Shop gift vouchers

- An experience e.g. my daughter might get a trip to the climbing wall as a present.

- An item to help them be eco-friendly such as a reusable coffee cup, bamboo cutlery or pretty hankies but only if they actually need them and are going to use them!

- Make something e.g. last year we made a zero-waste cake mix. You know the ones where all the dry ingredients are nicely layered in a jar? We made this for my father-in-law who often buys cake mix to make with the grandchildren. Reusing a jar and ribbon and buying the ingredients unpackaged or plastic-free made this an eco-friendly option.

- A charity donation e.g. Oxfam sells unwrapped gifts such as Safe water for a family of four or Education for a child. I know my children would love to adopt an animal , I’m thinking of a polar bear or a tiger NOT a pet!

- My ebook makes the perfect zero waste Christmas present! It's a week by week guide full of information, instructions, simple swaps, achievable ideas and recipes (such as crisps, deodorant and bread). Each week, for a year, there's a new tip towards a low-waste lifestyle, all based on my experience of being a parent in a family of 4. We have reduced our rubbish to 1 wheelie bin every 6 months and lowered our impact on the planet.

If you are buying brand new items, supporting a local business or craft-maker will help to keep carbon emissions lower and give the local economy a boost. Sometimes presents I buy are new but often I choose to reuse by buying in charity shops or even regift something I’ve got that’s in good condition but I don’t need and I think the recipient would like it (I’ve done this with books, for example). I went shopping the other day and bought presents for nieces, my nephew and my children from a charity shop. All good quality books and toys that can be reused and then some might even be returned to a charity shop one day!

Other people have written some brilliant blog posts about present buying, so here are two of my favourites:

47 Christmas Gifts That can Change the World

Giving The Gift Of Time This Christmas

Gift-wrapping

The most sustainable way to wrap presents is to use what you've already got. We keep paper and gift bags and use them again and again until they are completely worn out. At Christmas when all those presents have been unwrapped (in next to no time!), I sit later in the day or on Boxing Day and throw any plastic tape in the bin, roll up paper that can be reused ready for next year, keep ribbon and even some gift tags, they can be stuck on a card to be repurposed back into Christmas cards! This might sound like hard work! However, I don’t think it really is compared to trailing round shops each Christmas stocking up on paper, ribbon and gift tags. The sorting can be done in the comfort of your own home (with your favourite Christmas tipple – if you like!) and saves money too!

We also have some reusable cloth bags, pieces of fabric and scarves we use and reuse for gift-wrapping. You could also use brown paper from parcels, children's art work, newspaper or pages from magazines to wrap presents. Have a look around your home and see what you could repurpose .

If you do need to buy wrapping paper, look for rolls of paper that are not wrapped in plastic and are labelled recyclable . These have, thankfully, become quite common place now. Avoid all paper with glitter (as pretty as it is, glitter is lots of tiny bits of plastic!) and any ‘metallic’ paper. Neither of these types of paper are recyclable whereas wrapping paper which is actually just paper is recyclable (but you could save it to reuse instead!). To secure the paper I use ribbon I’ve kept from gifts we’ve been given (I’ll be refusing to buy any more) or paper tape that’s completely biodegradable. I refuse to buy gift tags and instead make them from old Christmas cards and ribbon.

Cards

Some people don’t send them, that’s the most eco-friendly option. However, I like to as it’s a way of keeping in touch and a tradition I tend to enjoy. Last year I sent very few as I was feeling totally overwhelmed. To protect my mental health I pared this task down massively (sorry if I took you off my Christmas card list, it wasn’t personal!). Anyway, I plan to send cards this year. I will have some left over from last year, we might make some (we have old Christmas cards and gift tags we might reuse ) or I will buy them plastic-free. It is possible to buy them in cardboard, you have to shop around, but they are out there! Again no glitter and reuse or recycle them after Christmas.

So could you refuse , reduce, reuse , regift and repurpose in preparation for Christmas? I’d love to know your thoughts and ideas, feel free to share them in the comments.



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I can very gratefully say, that I am now almost three years post hospital treatment for cancer. I’m healthy and I’m okay. I appear from the outside, perhaps, to be totally fine moving through life as before. However, this could not be further from the truth. Barely a day goes by when I don’t think about my cancer experience, often getting consumed by it. The thing that I’ve recently come to realise is that an illness, like this, is actually often initiatory. I have and I am going through a huge transformation, an initiation back into life and it looks like nothing’s happening from the outside. I have also found that there is little acknowledgement, understanding or support for this process. That’s not to say I’ve had no support, what it is to say, though, is that there has been no long term holding of my experience from the wider society. I haven’t been able to communicate this very well thus far, for I only just realised it myself thanks to reading ‘Descent and Rising’ by Carly Mountain. In this book Carly cleverly uses the ancient myth of Inanna alongside modern day real-life stories to show the descent into the underworld often felt by people including those who have illnesses. Up until this point, I simply thought something was wrong with me, that I was failing to recover emotionally. So, this daily onslaught of emotions manifests for me in many ways. Mostly, it takes a lot of headspace, meaning not a lot left for anything else. It also takes a lot of energy as I try to hold the tension (a phrase I’m so grateful for from ‘Wild Power’ by Alexandra Pope and Sjarnie Hugo Wurlitzer) as I try to hold the enormity of my feelings, feel them, not shy away from them, acknowledge them and behold myself alongside functioning as a human being and as a mother. Emotions of anger, grief, sadness and guilt flow through me on a regular basis. I try to think of them as boats passing me on a river (a technique I learnt by attending a course run by Force Cancer Charity); I know they will go past and I won’t feel like that forever. But the boats can turn round quite quickly and sail back up the river, demanding constant attention. Thankfully, my cancer-related fatigue stopped around the end of 2021, this level of fatigue is another thing not widely understood in our society. It was debilitating making it almost impossible to look after my children. However, the fatigue was replaced with being tired almost all the time. There’s a difference in that the fatigue never got better with rest but the tiredness can sometimes be eased. Fast forward to June 2023 (when I wrote this blog post), quite a considerable time has passed but I’m tired a lot of the time. 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